The art of Good Habits

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“Healthy habits are the cornerstone of a fulfilling life. They boost our physical health, enhance mental well-being
and can lead to a sense of achievement and happiness.” –Emma Ferris

We all have wonderful habits that can simplify our lives, but we may also have some habits that complicate things. The encouraging news is that with dedication and persistence, we can adopt healthier habits.

I recently heard a story about someone who successfully transformed a negative habit into a positive one. He realized that waiting for motivation was futile, so he focused on the benefits of changing his habit. With a newfound determination, he was willing to make the necessary effort and sacrifices to achieve his goal.

After putting his practice into action in my own life, I was pleasantly surprised to see a significant change in a habit that I wanted to change. Despite the inconvenience and effort required to make this transformation, I constantly remind myself that the sacrifices made are already yielding the desired results I have longed for.

Here are some tips on how to embrace new and healthier habits:

1. Set a clear and realistic goal. Be specific about what you want to achieve and set realistic, measurable goals. Instead of saying, “I want to meditate every day say, “I will meditate for 10 to 15 minutes 3 mornings per week.” Then gradually you can increase it to 5 and then 7 days.

2. Focus on channeling your energy towards forming new habits and resist the urge to dwell on old habits. Release any regrets and be open to letting go of past shortcomings. Instead, concentrate on investing your energy and effort into successfully cultivating new habits. Utilize affirmations, such as “I am grateful for my willingness to rise early each morning and have a highly productive day.”

3. Establish a Routine: Developing a routine is essential for forming habits. Selecting a set time and location for your new habit is crucial for success. By incorporating it into your daily schedule, it becomes easier to remember and follow through. For example, if you aim to go to bed earlier, begin mentally preparing to unwind 30 minutes before bedtime.

4. Visualize your success: Envision the ideal outcome. See you self already being the person you wish to becoming.

5. Stay patient, keep pushing forward, and remain adaptable: Forming new habits is a gradual process, and obstacles are to be expected. Be kind to yourself if you skip a day or encounter difficulties. The key is your dedication to regaining momentum and persisting.

According to the 21/90 rule, it takes 21 days to form a habit and 90 days to establish it as a permanent lifestyle change. Are there any lifestyle changes you are looking to make? Dedicate yourself to your goal for 21 days to turn it into a habit. Stay committed for 90 days, and it will seamlessly integrate into your lifestyle.

Developing habits is a journey, not a race. It requires resilience, consistency, and the determination to persevere, even when progress feels sluggish. Every small step matters, and with the proper attitude, you can change your life, one habit at a time.

In divine Friendship,

Gloria Ramirez
Transformative coaching for Self Mastery
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If you find yourself in need of assistance to overcome a challenging issue in your life, I am here to provide support through a coaching session or a series of Life Coaching sessions. We can connect via phone, Skype, FaceTime, or Zoom. For more information and to schedule a session, please visit my website or simply reply to this email.

The Power of Positive Thinking

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“Change your thoughts and you’ll change your world.” -Norman Vincent Peale.

What thoughts do you hold about yourself? Are they ones of encouragement, or do they lean towards criticism? And when it comes to others, do your thoughts radiate positivity, or are they clouded by negativity? Reflecting on these questions with unwavering honesty is crucial in paving the way for the changes needed to embrace the strength of positive thinking.

Often, our minds are consumed by worry and fear rather than hope and trust. These destructive mental habits were not inherent; we learned them and can unlearn them. Fear, as someone wisely put it, is the greatest adversary to one’s character. To break free from this cycle, we must be open to embracing a new perspective. One effective strategy is to minimize the use of worrisome language in our daily interactions and instead place our trust in a higher power. Howard Christy once said, “When your mind is full of God, your mind is free of worry.”

Embrace the power of positive thinking by being mindful of your thoughts. Release the urge to dwell on negative scenarios repeatedly. Surrender the need for complete control over outcomes. Stay calm, give your best effort each day, and trust in divine guidance to steer your path.

Take control of your destiny by harnessing the power of positive language. Your words have the ability to shape the world around you, so choose them wisely. If you desire harmonious relationships, a thriving career, financial abundance, and moments of pure joy, then it is essential to monitor your thoughts, speech, and actions.

Remember, your reality is a reflection of your mindset. Speak only positivity into existence in every aspect of your life. For example:

“I attract abundance into my life effortlessly and easily.”

“I give myself permission to succeed.”

“I create my reality with loving thoughts, words, and actions.”

“I attract harmonious relationships.”

In divine Friendship

Gloria Ramirez
Transformative coaching for Self Mastery
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If you feel that you need support to overcome a challenging issue in your life, I am available to support you with a coaching session or with a series of Life Coaching sessions. We can meet by phone, Skype, FaceTime, or Zoom. For further details and to book a session, visit my website or simply reply to this email.

How to Cultivate Harmonious Relationships

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As I sit down to write this blog post, I am flooded with memories of my past conflicts in various relationships. My life resembled a roller coaster ride, filled with unpredictable ups and downs. Little did I know back then, that I held the key to resolving these conflicts – taking responsibility. It never occurred to me that my own thoughts and negative attitude were the root cause of all these challenges. Instead, I found myself caught up in a cycle of blame, criticism, gossip, and sarcasm, feeling like a helpless victim of circumstance.

After enduring years of hardship, I finally embraced humility and realized the need for a shift in my mindset and attitude. I am deeply appreciative of the mentors, coaches, and teachers who guided me in recognizing my role in creating my own reality and equipped me with the necessary tools to embark on a transformative journey. It has taken immense dedication, discipline, perseverance, consistency, willpower, and faith to learn to cultivate harmonious relationships in my life.

I am thrilled to reveal the pivotal milestones of my personal evolution that have shaped my inner transformation today.

  • The initial step I embraced was to develop a deep sense of love, acceptance, and self-approval. It became evident to me later on that without taking this crucial step, I would not have had the capacity to genuinely love and accept others.

  • I discovered the importance of establishing boundaries. Whenever I encountered disrespect or abuse, I proactively expressed my thoughts to the person, always maintaining a respectful tone, and made it clear that their behavior was not acceptable. To prevent speaking out of anger, I would often jot down my emotions in my journal before setting these boundaries. This practice proved to be incredibly beneficial for my well-being, and I owe immense gratitude to my mentor, Billie Beth, for guiding me towards this healthier approach. 

  • I embraced acceptance by relinquishing the desire to control others or impose expectations on their behavior. Instead, I dedicated myself to giving my best effort, avoiding any potential regrets, and entrusting the rest to a higher power. This newfound approach allowed me to truly embrace and understand others as they are, fostering a profound sense of compassion and empathy within my heart.

  • Above all, I embarked on a journey to cultivate a profound connection with God. My faith endured countless trials, yet within the depths of my heart, a resolute determination blossomed, guiding me to embrace God’s guidance towards ultimate happiness and harmonious fulfillment in every facet of my life.

My journey has been incredibly fulfilling as I can confidently say that I now cherish healthy and harmonious relationships with my family, colleagues, friends, and God. Through my willingness to change from within, my entire external world has undergone a remarkable transformation.

If you are currently facing any difficulties in your relationships, it’s important to realize that you have the power to transform your life. By looking within and changing the beliefs or attitudes that have been holding you back, you can create a positive change. Don’t be afraid to give yourself permission to seek help and guidance from a skilled coach or professional therapist. They can provide you with the support and guidance you need to overcome any challenges you may be facing.

In divine Friendship

Gloria Ramirez
Transformative coaching for Self Mastery
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If you feel that you need support to overcome a challenging issue in your life, I am available to support you with a coaching session or with a series of Life Coaching sessions. We can meet by phone, Skype, FaceTime, or Zoom. For further details and to book a session, visit my website or simply reply to this email.

5 Tips to Prepare for a Successful New Year

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What an incredible opportunity lies before us as we embark on a new year. It is a chance to cultivate a year filled with joy, peace, harmony, creativity, and prosperity. Before us lies a blank canvas, brimming with limitless possibilities. We can paint upon it anything our hearts desire and revel in the magnificent end result. Let us envision this blank canvas as our fresh start in 2024, a new chapter in our lives.

In order to transform any project into a reality, careful planning is essential. This holds true not just for projects, but also for our lives. It is crucial to make wise choices in all areas of our lives, including career, family, health, relationships, enjoyment, mental wellness, physical fitness, and our spiritual growth.

The most important part of our life planning to create a successful year, must be to have a plan, to have a definite intention, to believe that we are capable and an unyielding determination to overcome obstacles.

I’d like to share some tips that can help you prepare for a very successful new year 2024:

  1. Let divine wisdom be your guiding light: Embrace the essential step of allowing your Higher Power to lead your life. Your success is of utmost importance to Him, and He wants to assist you in achieving your deepest desires. Let His wisdom illuminate your path. Take time each day to meditate and pray, allowing your mind to unwind and attune to His voice. Through your intuition, you will recognize the right choices for every aspect of your life.
  • Maintain a positive attitude: Make a firm commitment to maintaining a positive outlook in all aspects of your life, and always strive to find the silver lining in every situation. Keep in mind that your positive attitude has the power to shape your reality. By radiating positive thoughts, you will open the doors to new opportunities. According to the law of attraction, what you put out into the world, you will receive in return.
  • Stay mindful of the incredible potential of your mind: Your thoughts, your language, and your actions have the power to shape your reality. Embrace the strength of positive thinking, use empowering language, and prioritize actions that benefit both yourself and humanity. Remember, everything you wish to create in your life begins within your mind. A positive thought will spark a positive response. Harness the power of affirmations and visualizations to attract what you truly desire. You are an active participant in crafting a remarkably successful new year through the power of your mind.
  • Stay open-minded: Take time to reflect on your life experiences regularly to determine if any changes are necessary. This may involve letting go of old habits, embracing new and empowering ones, and looking forward to embracing your creative power as it brings you fresh ideas.
  • Reach out for support: You don’t have to be a superhero and try to achieve your dreams alone. Be open to reaching out to others for help and support, and be willing to offer the same to others. Through our interactions with others, we can receive valuable creative ideas. Additionally, seeking the advice of professionals when needed can save you a lot of time and provide guidance for your projects.

I invite you to consider these 5 tips to prepare for a successful new year. Imagine how fulfilling it will be to reflect on your accomplishments at the end of this year.

I also recommend reading my previous blog: “5 Principles to maintain inner peace.” Click here to read it https://gloriaramirez.com/blog

On Thursday, February 1st, I will be facilitating a FREE Inspirational class via zoom: “5 Principles to maintain inner peace. This class can help you embrace today’s message as it will provide tips on how to cultivate a wonderful life. Click here to REGISTER

In divine Friendship

Gloria Ramirez
Transformative coaching for Self Mastery
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If you feel that you need support to overcome a challenging issue in your life, I am available to support you with a coaching session or with a series of Life Coaching sessions. We can meet by phone, Skype, FaceTime, or Zoom. For further details and to book a session, visit my website or simply reply to this email.

5 Principles to maintain Inner Peace

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The holidays are upon us, and with them, stress can show up at the door. Fortunately, we can choose to handle every situation from a place centered on inner peace. We do not have to go into automatic pilot, believing that the only way to handle life challenges is by responding with fear, anxiety, or reacting negatively to the behaviors of others. We can, instead, wisely choose to remain peaceful, trusting that a solution will come to us at the right moment.
 
What’s important is to pay attention, and when a challenging situation shows up, immediately take control of how you are responding to it. This is the gift of living in the present, in the now, so you are totally aware of your behavior and your internal dialogue. Living in this manner can avoid unnecessary stress and suffering.
 
I remember the days when I lived as an autopilot or like a robot, not thinking at all and instead reacting, in most cases, defensively or even angry, and feeling fearful and insecure. Little by little, I have learned that instead of reacting negatively to difficult situations, I could respond with calmness and faith that a solution would show up. I have learned not to take anything personally and instead to remain serene and learn to listen. I have learned not to have expectations and instead to always do my best and accept the rest as it comes. I have also learned that loving yourself is a very big part of being able to maintain my inner peace.
 
I’d like to offer some principles on how to maintain inner peace:

1. Meditate
The practice of meditation can help you stay focused and quiet your mind. Meditation helps you to make a conscious decision to leave the cares of the world behind for a while and stop worrying and planning for even a short period of time. You can learn to settle down and be still. Then you can bring into your daily life the peace that you felt during meditation. All you have to do is create the habit of doing it every day.

2. Breath
If you find yourself worrying, take a moment to do a round of breathing exercises, like inhaling and exhaling deeply 10 times, or you can do measured breathing: Inhale for 6 counts, hold the breath for 6 counts, and exhale for 6 counts. Adjust the count to whatever works best for you.

3. Love yourself
As you learn to love yourself, you open your heart to doing things that enhance respect and caring for yourself. You learn to find solutions that feel positive and harmonious and help you feel happy.

4. Accept what is
Acceptance gives you the opportunity to allow things to be as they are without actively trying to change them. This practice can contribute to better mental health, personal growth, and overall well-being. Acceptance also allows you to move forward more effectively through challenges. By embracing the present moment and accepting it as it is, you can focus on what is important and work towards positive change without denying or rejecting reality.

5. Always do your best
When you know that you have done your very best, you will not have any regrets, and you will feel at peace. It will give you a sense of relaxation knowing that you are honest, and therefore you will not have any regrets or doubts. Commit to becoming the best version of yourself every day, and leave the rest in your Creator’s hands.
 
I invite you to consider these 5 principles on how to maintain inner peaceJust imagine how your life can improve even more as you apply these principles in your daily life.
 
I also recommend reading my previous blog: “5 Ways to Cultivate Compassion.” Click here to read it.
 
On Thursday, December 28th, I will be facilitating, via zoom, a “Purification Ceremony” to let go of 2023 and get ready for our new year 2024: Click here to REGISTER

In divine friendship,

Gloria Ramirez
Transformative coaching for Self Mastery
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5 ways to Cultivate Compassion

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Compassion is often misunderstood as a sign of weakness, but in reality, it is a remarkable strength. I have dedicated years to cultivating self-compassion and self-love, and I can confidently say that it has profoundly transformed my life for the better. Most importantly, it has opened my heart to extend compassion towards others. This empathy has allowed me to forge incredible friendships and experience the pure joy of spreading kindness.

I’d like to share some tips on what has worked for me to cultivate compassion:

1. Start by practicing self-compassion
This practice serves as the cornerstone for cultivating compassion towards others in the future. It is a well-known fact that we cannot offer what we do not possess. Just like a dried orange cannot produce juice, if we lack the ability to be compassionate towards ourselves, we won’t be able to extend it to others. The key to learning self-compassion lies in embracing positive language, thoughts, and actions towards ourselves. By letting go of self-criticism and honoring ourselves as children of God, I discovered the true essence of compassion.

2. Speak with kindness
The power of our words can have a profound negative impact on someone’s life. That’s why it’s crucial to make a conscious effort to treat everyone with respect. By doing so, we not only bring peace and happiness to others, but also to ourselves.

3. Listen carefully and without judgment
Listening is a valuable skill that enables us to maintain a state of neutrality and unwavering focus. By actively listening, we convey respect and acknowledgement to the person sharing their thoughts, which in turn empowers them to discover their own solutions. It is not necessary for us to have all the answers or recommendations; simply offering a receptive ear can make a significant difference. Moreover, any ideas we contribute will stem from our intuitive understanding, as we remain open and attuned to our inner guidance.

4. Focus on people’s strengths
Each individual possesses unique and admirable qualities that we can shine a light on. By doing so, we empower them to recognize their own worth and shift their perspective to see the positive aspects within themselves. Furthermore, they will sense our genuine desire to assist them in overcoming challenges and assure them that there is always a viable solution available.

5. Accept people for who they are
By embracing self-acceptance, you unlock the power to embrace others just as they are. A critical mindset often leads us to disapproval of others because deep down, we harbor insecurities and doubts about our own worth. As we cultivate inner security, we gain the ability to wholeheartedly embrace people for who they truly are.

I invite you to consider these 5 tips and strive to cultivate compassion even at a deeper level. Just imagine how we individually can impact the world as we bring more of this quality into our daily interactions.

I also recommend reading my previous blog: “What’s in your Garden?

On Thursday, December 7, I will be facilitating a FREE Inspirational class” via zoom: “What’s in your Garden?” This class can help you embrace today’s message as it will provide tips on how to cultivate a wonderful life. Click here to REGISTER

Gloria Ramirez
Transformative coaching for Self-Mastery
Monthly Inspirational FREE Class

If you feel that you need support to overcome a challenging issue in your life, I am available to support you with a coaching session or with a series of Life Coaching sessions. We can meet by phone, Skype, FaceTime, or Zoom. For further details and to book a session, visit my website or simply reply to this email.

What is in Your Garden?

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Just as a garden needs our care, our lives are like gardens entrusted to us by our Creator. Take a moment to reflect on what you have planted in your own garden. Are you satisfied with what you see, or do you feel the need to make some changes and plant new flowers? By doing so, your garden will come alive, vibrant, and filled with love and joy.

Give yourself permission to dream. Imagine a garden teeming with vibrant colors, where every flower blooms with its unique beauty. Now, picture your life as that garden, with each aspect representing a different flower. Are you content with the current arrangement, or do you feel the need to introduce new elements to create a more captivating and fulfilling experience?

Just as a gardener tends to their plants, nurturing them with care, you have the power to shape your own life. Take this opportunity to reflect on the choices you have made and envision the possibilities that lie ahead. Are there areas where you can introduce new passions, hobbies, or relationships that will bring more love and joy into your life?

Remember, life is a continuous journey of growth and transformation. Just like a garden, it requires nurturing, attention, and occasional changes to thrive. Embrace the opportunity to cultivate your own garden, sowing the seeds of happiness, fulfillment, and personal growth. With each new flower you plant, your life will blossom into a vibrant tapestry of love and joy.

Take a moment today to assess your garden and consider the changes you can make to create a more beautiful and fulfilling life. By tending to your garden with love and care, you will witness it flourish and radiate with positive energy.

Have you ever thought about what you would like to remove from your garden of life? Perhaps fear is a big one that comes to mind. Imagine clearing it out and replacing it with courage. And what about those pesky weeds that resemble resentment? You can uproot them and replace them with forgiveness, allowing your garden to flourish. And let’s not forget about stress. Picture removing it and replacing it with a sense of peace, creating a serene oasis. Do you see the possibilities? We have been given the incredible opportunity to nurture our garden of life with the most exquisite flowers, plants, trees, and greens imaginable. Are we truly making the most of our time here on earth? Are we carefully selecting the finest for our garden? Are we nourishing it with our authentic essence?

Harness the transformative force within you. If you sense the presence of unwanted weeds in your garden, I invite you to embark on a transformative journey right away to eliminate anything that fails to enhance its beauty. Bid farewell to jealousy, anxiety, envy, procrastination, gossip, selfishness, fear, sadness, judgment, anger, and any form of lack or limitation. Instead, replace these unsightly weeds with the blossoming virtues of trust, peace, generosity, responsibility, courage, cooperation, kindness, and prosperity, nourishing them with an abundance of love. With unwavering patience, it won’t be long before you witness a garden that truly reflects your desires, your very own paradise.

In my personal journey, nurturing my inner garden encompasses a range of practices. These include daily prayer and meditation, the conscious effort to replace old habits with new and empowering ones, the release of pent-up emotions, forgiveness processes, the use of positive language, thoughts, and actions, being of service to others, and the commitment to daily maintenance.

I invite you to embark on a journey of self-discovery, where you can strive for the creation of your own personal paradise. Imagine a life filled with joy, abundance, and fulfillment. By embracing your true potential and channeling your divine qualities, you can manifest heaven on earth.

By nurturing and nourishing the garden of our lives with the divine qualities bestowed upon us by God, we unlock the astonishing power of transformation. I invite you to strive for the creation of your own personal paradise, so that collectively, we can manifest heaven on earth.

I also recommend reading my previous blog: “Transform your life with these 8 life-changing Principles.”

On Thursday, November 2, I will be facilitating a FREE Inspirational class” via zoom: “Transform your life with these 8 life-changing Principles.” This class can help you embrace today’s message as it will provide tips on how to cultivate a wonderful life.

Gloria Ramirez
Transformative coaching for Self-Mastery
Monthly Inspirational FREE Class

If you feel that you need support to overcome a challenging issue in your life, I am available to support you with a coaching session or with a series of Life Coaching sessions. We can meet by phone, Skype, FaceTime, or Zoom. For further details and to book a session, visit my website or simply reply to this email.

Transform Your Life with these 8 Life-Changing Principles

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In my transformative coaching program “12 Steps to Mastery”, one of the weekly assignments that I give my clients, is to read 1 chapter per week and write down a brief summary of the book “You can heal your life” by Louise Hay. Everyone loves this book because it offers very clear and wise advice about all aspects of life. I’d like to take a group of principles that Louse Hay includes at the beginning of her book, and expand according to my understanding. These are statements:
We are each responsible for all of our experiences.
Life is a journey of continuous learning, and as we wholeheartedly embrace this concept, we can seize each lesson with unwavering faith and determination.

Every thought we think is creating our future. The point of power is always in the present moment.
As we wholeheartedly embrace the notion that our thoughts have the power to shape our reality, it is imperative that we stay fully present in the present moment and maintain a keen awareness of what we are manifesting. It is within this realm that our genuine strength resides – in the ability to bring our visions to life and shape our reality.

Everyone suffers from self-hatred and guilt.
There is always a part of our lives that we tend to overlook or dismiss. This serves as an opportunity for transformation. Instead of rejecting ourselves, it is essential to examine the areas that require nurturing and care, and be ready to take necessary steps towards change. Remember, true transformation originates from within.
The bottom line for everyone is, “I’m not good enough.”
I am constantly amazed by this phenomenon, which I have witnessed countless times in my coaching sessions. It’s hard to fathom, but I myself struggled with this very obstacle years ago. This concept is an open invitation for us to devote time to celebrating and recognizing the incredible qualities and skills we possess, as well as the remarkable achievements we have accomplished throughout our lives.

It’s only a thought, and a thought can be changed.
This is a very important reminder that if we have accepted negative thoughts about ourselves, we can always change them and replace them with positive, uplifting thoughts.

We create every so-called illness in our body.
By allowing negative thoughts to occupy our minds, they gradually infiltrate our entire being, causing various issues within our internal cells. This emphasizes the crucial need to remain vigilant and prioritize focusing on positive thoughts.

Resentment, criticism, and guilt are the most damaging patterns.
Engaging in resentment brings no positive outcomes as it only inflicts harm upon our physical well-being, emotional state, and overall life.
Louise Hay says: “Releasing resentment will dissolve even cancer”, and “We must release the past and forgive everyone.”

We must be willing to begin to learn to love ourselves.
This is the most important attitude that we must cultivate: Love and accept ourselves. Our choice in this matter has the power to shape our existence, either leading to a life filled with hardships or a life filled with happiness. When we truly learn to embrace self-love, we unlock the ability to love and accept others unconditionally.
Louise Hay says: “Self-approval and self-acceptance in the now are the keys to positive changes”, and “When we really love ourselves, everything in our life works.”

I encourage you to embrace the opportunity to implement at least one of these principles from Louise Hay. The path to self-love and self-acceptance demands your ongoing dedication until you unite harmoniously with the divine.

I also recommend reading my previous blog: Boost Your Self-esteem with These 5 Essential Tips

On Thursday, October 5, I will be facilitating a FREE Inspirational class” via zoom: “Boost Your Self-esteem with These 5 Essential Tips”. This class can help you embrace today’s message as it will provide tips on how to have a victorious mentality. Click here to REGISTER

Gloria Ramirez
Transformative coaching for Self-Mastery
Monthly Inspirational FREE Class

If you feel that you need support to overcome a challenging issue in your life, I am available to support you with a coaching session or with a series of Life Coaching sessions. We can meet by phone, Skype, FaceTime, or Zoom. For further details and to book a session, visit my website or simply reply to this email.

Boost Your Self-esteem with These 5 Essential Tips

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Our early experiences shape our perception of ourselves and lay the groundwork for our future. When treated with love, respect, and dignity, we are given a strong foundation to thrive. Unfortunately, many of us grow up with parents or adults who did not possess a positive self-image, which can hinder our own self-esteem. Constantly hearing negative comments, criticism, or even experiencing verbal or physical abuse can prevent us from developing a strong sense of self from a young age.

If we lack a positive self-image from childhood, it is likely that this will carry into adulthood. I personally experienced this struggle. However, the good news is that we have the power to transform our lives and break free from false perceptions of ourselves. Through the guidance of mentors, coaches, books, and self-development programs, I have dedicated years to shedding any limitations that hindered my true identity as a child of God.

It is ironic that God created us in His image and likeness, yet over time, we have distorted this image by accepting limiting beliefs and falling into a trance-like state where we forget our divine essence. As a human race, it is time for us to take responsibility and rediscover our oneness with God. By recognizing our worth and embracing our divine essence, we can overcome the negative impacts of our past and create a future filled with self-love, empowerment, and fulfillment.

I’d like to share some tips that have helped me develop a healthy self-esteem:

  1. Get expert guidance and support. Connect with a professional coach who can steer you towards success and hold you accountable for your growth. As my mentor Les Brown once said, “When you’re in the picture, you can’t see the frame.” Let someone help you see beyond your own limitations.
  2. Nurture and strengthen your connection with God. The ultimate objective is to fully embrace your identity as a cherished child of God. Through the practice of meditation and prayer, you will gain clarity and receive divine guidance to embrace your true essence, shedding the distorted self-image you once held.
  3. Commit to treating everyone and yourself with respect. Cultivating an attitude of respect towards oneself and others contributes to fostering a healthy self-esteem and nurturing harmonious relationships. Embrace kindness and compassion in your interactions with everyone you encounter. Live by the golden rule each day: “Treat others as you would want to be treated.”
  4. Embrace the power of personal accountability. Too often, we point fingers at others for the circumstances in our lives, failing to recognize that these moments can serve as valuable lessons and opportunities for growth. By approaching each experience with a winning mindset rather than playing the victim, we open ourselves up to the transformative gifts that life has in store for us. Embrace this mindset and watch as life unfolds its wonders before you.
  5. Strive to be the best version of yourself every day. Embrace each new day with enthusiasm and make a conscious decision to make it a victorious one. By putting your attention and effort into becoming your best self, you can make each day a step towards greatness.

I encourage you to embrace the opportunity to implement at least one of the tips I have shared above. The path to self-love and self-acceptance demands your ongoing dedication until you unite harmoniously with the divine.

I also recommend reading my previous blog: How to Have a Victorious Mentality

On Thursday, September 7, I will be facilitating a FREE Inspirational class” via zoom: “How to Have a Victorious Mentality”. This class can help you embrace today’s message as it will provide tips on how to have a victorious mentality. Click here to REGISTER (https://gloriaramirez.com/register)

Gloria Ramirez
Transformative coaching for Self-Mastery
Monthly Inspirational FREE Class

If you feel that you need support to overcome a challenging issue in your life, I am available to support you with a coaching session or with a series of Life Coaching sessions. We can meet by phone, Skype, FaceTime, or Zoom. For further details and to book a session, visit my website or simply reply to this email.

How to Have a Victorious Mentality

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Everyone wants to be victorious in every area of their lives. However, sometimes success seems unreachable and we end up getting discouraged, disappointed, blaming others, feeling depressed and even upset. This is when we have to realize that to win in life, we need to have a victory mindset.

To be able to be victorious in life, first you have to be willing to have a positive attitude, expect the best, have faith, focus on your goal, be determined and disciplined. You can embrace each one of these behaviors by being willing and determined to make changes in your life, one day at a time.

For years, I felt like a victim, totally convinced that anything that did not go well in my life was the fault of other people or situations. I had a self-pity mentality, feeling sorry for myself and not willing to do anything about it. I was focusing on blaming others. I really believed that it was the responsibility of others to make me happy. My erroneous mindset brought a lot of suffering into my life. Until one day, when the suffering was unbearable, I finally had the humbleness to seek help. This was the most important decision of my life. I started to understand that I was attracting everything into my life by the way I was thinking. My thinking needed correction and fortunately many programs and mentors helped me (I was now open and receptive) to shift my thinking and I finally understood that the secret to a victorious life was in my mind.

This is how Buddha expressed it: “The mind is everything.” And Ralph Waldo Emerson: “You become what you think about all day long”.

The good news is that with the help of mentors and the steady study of success principles, I was able to transform my life in a very positive way and I have been enjoying the new experiences that I am creating now every day. Also, for years I have been sharing with others throughout my coaching and classes what I have learned and how they can apply truth principles into their own lives. I continuously witness miracles.

To have a victorious mentality, you must be willing to observe yourself and be determined to make changes in the areas that might be creating blocks in your life, like victim mentality, blaming, feeling guilty, procrastinating, criticizing others or yourself. Also, you must be willing to invest in yourself with self-development programs and seek the help of a coach, who can guide you on how to replace these behaviors with self-confidence, focus, determination, a positive attitude, taking responsibility, in summary, a victorious mentality.

Be willing to ask yourself with honesty: What kind of live am I creating with my thoughts right now? And if your thoughts are negative, forgive yourself and right away shift your mind to a victorious mindset. This is how you will be creating a life that you will enjoy.

I recommend this previous blog: The Quality of your Thoughts Creates the Quality of your Life On Thursday, August 3, I will be facilitating a FREE Inspirational class” via zoom: “6 Tips to simplify Making Decisions”. This class can help you embrace today’s message as it will provide tips on how to have a victorious mentality. Click here to REGISTER

Gloria Ramirez
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