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As I sit down to write this blog post, I am flooded with memories of my past conflicts in various relationships. My life resembled a roller coaster ride, filled with unpredictable ups and downs. Little did I know back then, that I held the key to resolving these conflicts – taking responsibility. It never occurred to me that my own thoughts and negative attitude were the root cause of all these challenges. Instead, I found myself caught up in a cycle of blame, criticism, gossip, and sarcasm, feeling like a helpless victim of circumstance.
After enduring years of hardship, I finally embraced humility and realized the need for a shift in my mindset and attitude. I am deeply appreciative of the mentors, coaches, and teachers who guided me in recognizing my role in creating my own reality and equipped me with the necessary tools to embark on a transformative journey. It has taken immense dedication, discipline, perseverance, consistency, willpower, and faith to learn to cultivate harmonious relationships in my life.
I am thrilled to reveal the pivotal milestones of my personal evolution that have shaped my inner transformation today.
- The initial step I embraced was to develop a deep sense of love, acceptance, and self-approval. It became evident to me later on that without taking this crucial step, I would not have had the capacity to genuinely love and accept others.
- I discovered the importance of establishing boundaries. Whenever I encountered disrespect or abuse, I proactively expressed my thoughts to the person, always maintaining a respectful tone, and made it clear that their behavior was not acceptable. To prevent speaking out of anger, I would often jot down my emotions in my journal before setting these boundaries. This practice proved to be incredibly beneficial for my well-being, and I owe immense gratitude to my mentor, Billie Beth, for guiding me towards this healthier approach.
- I embraced acceptance by relinquishing the desire to control others or impose expectations on their behavior. Instead, I dedicated myself to giving my best effort, avoiding any potential regrets, and entrusting the rest to a higher power. This newfound approach allowed me to truly embrace and understand others as they are, fostering a profound sense of compassion and empathy within my heart.
- Above all, I embarked on a journey to cultivate a profound connection with God. My faith endured countless trials, yet within the depths of my heart, a resolute determination blossomed, guiding me to embrace God’s guidance towards ultimate happiness and harmonious fulfillment in every facet of my life.
My journey has been incredibly fulfilling as I can confidently say that I now cherish healthy and harmonious relationships with my family, colleagues, friends, and God. Through my willingness to change from within, my entire external world has undergone a remarkable transformation.
If you are currently facing any difficulties in your relationships, it’s important to realize that you have the power to transform your life. By looking within and changing the beliefs or attitudes that have been holding you back, you can create a positive change. Don’t be afraid to give yourself permission to seek help and guidance from a skilled coach or professional therapist. They can provide you with the support and guidance you need to overcome any challenges you may be facing.
In divine Friendship
Gloria Ramirez
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