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The holidays are upon us, and with them, stress can show up at the door. Fortunately, we can choose to handle every situation from a place centered on inner peace. We do not have to go into automatic pilot, believing that the only way to handle life challenges is by responding with fear, anxiety, or reacting negatively to the behaviors of others. We can, instead, wisely choose to remain peaceful, trusting that a solution will come to us at the right moment.
What’s important is to pay attention, and when a challenging situation shows up, immediately take control of how you are responding to it. This is the gift of living in the present, in the now, so you are totally aware of your behavior and your internal dialogue. Living in this manner can avoid unnecessary stress and suffering.
I remember the days when I lived as an autopilot or like a robot, not thinking at all and instead reacting, in most cases, defensively or even angry, and feeling fearful and insecure. Little by little, I have learned that instead of reacting negatively to difficult situations, I could respond with calmness and faith that a solution would show up. I have learned not to take anything personally and instead to remain serene and learn to listen. I have learned not to have expectations and instead to always do my best and accept the rest as it comes. I have also learned that loving yourself is a very big part of being able to maintain my inner peace.
I’d like to offer some principles on how to maintain inner peace:
1. Meditate
The practice of meditation can help you stay focused and quiet your mind. Meditation helps you to make a conscious decision to leave the cares of the world behind for a while and stop worrying and planning for even a short period of time. You can learn to settle down and be still. Then you can bring into your daily life the peace that you felt during meditation. All you have to do is create the habit of doing it every day.
2. Breath
If you find yourself worrying, take a moment to do a round of breathing exercises, like inhaling and exhaling deeply 10 times, or you can do measured breathing: Inhale for 6 counts, hold the breath for 6 counts, and exhale for 6 counts. Adjust the count to whatever works best for you.
3. Love yourself
As you learn to love yourself, you open your heart to doing things that enhance respect and caring for yourself. You learn to find solutions that feel positive and harmonious and help you feel happy.
4. Accept what is
Acceptance gives you the opportunity to allow things to be as they are without actively trying to change them. This practice can contribute to better mental health, personal growth, and overall well-being. Acceptance also allows you to move forward more effectively through challenges. By embracing the present moment and accepting it as it is, you can focus on what is important and work towards positive change without denying or rejecting reality.
5. Always do your best
When you know that you have done your very best, you will not have any regrets, and you will feel at peace. It will give you a sense of relaxation knowing that you are honest, and therefore you will not have any regrets or doubts. Commit to becoming the best version of yourself every day, and leave the rest in your Creator’s hands.
I invite you to consider these 5 principles on how to maintain inner peace. Just imagine how your life can improve even more as you apply these principles in your daily life.
I also recommend reading my previous blog: “5 Ways to Cultivate Compassion.” Click here to read it.
On Thursday, December 28th, I will be facilitating, via zoom, a “Purification Ceremony” to let go of 2023 and get ready for our new year 2024: Click here to REGISTER
In divine friendship,
Gloria Ramirez
Transformative coaching for Self Mastery
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